Grace is...

"Grace is neither gentleness nor fragility. Grace is treating yourself, others, and even inanimate objects with respect." - Kamand Kojouri

Self-control

Self-control is strength. Calmness is mastery. You have to get to a point where your mood doesn't shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else. Don't allow others to control the direction of your life. Don't allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence. 

- Unknown